Motivation, it’s a great thing when you want to lose weight.  Well, you have to have some kind of motivation, and generally speaking, it can’t be somebody else’s.  When somebody is constantly complaining at me, my motivation is to tell them to leave me alone and go lose weight if they want to complain about it.  But the motivation more specifically is to do it without hurting their feeling to too great a degree.  It has to be done, but it’s a matter of how you do it.  That makes everything hard. 

But I’ve frankly seen more than one girl see a guy she liked and get motivated because he was having a dark spot with his girlfriend and they figure when he looks this way, I’m going to be ready.  Whatever works in a way.  Actually, that’s one of the best ways I’ve seen, the best motivations.  We shouldn’t base our lives around guys, but frankly these are girls we’re talking about.  They’re not likely to change that detail, even if they know it’s stupid.  I say it’s the best, because quite frankly, let’s be completely honest here.  Girls for some reason tend to see the greatest success when they’re motivated by the prospect of a guy.  I’ve seen some girls who struggled for various reasons for months, and that came up and suddenly they lost a good 20 pounds like that.  So it’s all about the right motivation.